Do like one and act like one and you are the one.
1. Successful people don't take failure
too seriously.
They see failure as the opportunity to
begin again, but this time more intelligently. They know it's not a defining
event, and they don't treat it as a problem unless it begins to become a habit.
They win as if they are used to it, and they lose as if they're enjoying the
challenge.
2. Successful people accept who they
are and what they are about.
If you keep putting yourself down,
there is no way for you to move forward. Successful people know the
smartest mindset you can have is self-acceptance--refusing to be in an
adversarial relationship with yourself.
3. Successful people set goals and work
to achieve them.
Having a dream is great, but having a
dream and goals is smart, because goals are how dreams
become achievable. The most successful people are constantly setting and
working toward goals to make a positive difference. Goals turn the invisible
visible; they let you structure your thinking to always be looking for
something you can do to bring you closer to what you want to achieve. Goals
lead you to ask every day, "What am I doing that will move me toward where
I want to be and what I want to achieve.?" Successful people not only
set goals, they set them high. And they don't stop until they reach them.
4. Successful people don't leave things
to chance.
Instead of passively hoping for the
best, they take control to make things happen. You always have a choice: You
can control your mind or you can let it control you. Refusing to leave
things to chance shows inner strength, decisiveness, and a strong will.
Incredible things happen when you decide to take control of what you can
control and let go of the rest.
5. Successful people don't let
themselves get sidetracked by problems.
If your mindset is negative, problems
will grow in strength and constantly pull you down, sending you on detours of
thought into some bad neighborhoods. On the other hand, with a positive mindset
you will think of problems as a reason to be creative and come up with
innovative solutions. The biggest problem is thinking of problems as problems.
Successful people know that when you focus on problems you have more problems,
but when you focus on possibilities you have more opportunities.
6. Successful people are decisive.
The most successful people are deft
decision makers. They don't waffle or second-guess themselves. They take in the
information they need, then clear out their mind and pick the best option based
on what they know. If it turns out to be wrong, they learn from it. But they
won't be guilty of not deciding at all.
7. Successful people
are continually learning.
If you want to go far, borrow the
mindset known in Zen Buddhism as shoshin, or
learner's mind. That means you don't pretend to know it all but are open to
learning and growth and development, with a mind that's fresh and enthusiastic
and free of bias. Experience holds lessons for us all, but you have to remain
teachable to take advantage of them.
If you're serious about being
successful, cultivate these smart mindsets and see where they take you.
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